Re: love? to much? not enough? or just different
Your descriptions remind me in some ways of my own mother when I was young. For a while she had very little personal identity or time to herself while she was raising us kids and it had to be hard with three little ones and my dad working so much. She was just "the person who is my mom" until she got burned out and decided to make herself more of a priority. Suddenly she became "the person who is my mom- and a talented crafter- and a student- and ultimately a nurse" and it was pretty awesome. My sisters and I got to see a side of her she never let out before and we were really proud of her accomplishments. Plus, it helped us think about the kind of people we wanted to grow up to be.
I'm not a mom so I don't want to offer any advice. I just want to observe that in my own situation, having a mom who had a definitive life and identity outside of marriage and motherhood had a positive impact on my sisters and I. I grew up with a mom who *shined* in her independence and pushed us to follow her example. Everybody has to assess their own situation though, I've never walked in your shoes.
Originally posted by yukanaoe
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I'm not a mom so I don't want to offer any advice. I just want to observe that in my own situation, having a mom who had a definitive life and identity outside of marriage and motherhood had a positive impact on my sisters and I. I grew up with a mom who *shined* in her independence and pushed us to follow her example. Everybody has to assess their own situation though, I've never walked in your shoes.
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