Re: Why must I be an adult or have permission to be taught?
For British Traditional Wicca, which is initiatory, most covens require a person to be whatever is generally considered a "legal adult" in the country in question (so 18 in the United States, for example) but I've seen a lot of BTW covens that require people to be over 21. One of the reasons is the use of alcohol in ritual and the desire for everyone to be able to practice equally and not have another option or whatever.
But a big reason is that initiatory paths tend to require a lot of dedication, learning new thing, memorizing things, copying things, and long periods of waiting and patience. These groups want to make very sure that whoever wants to join is committed to the long haul. But I have noticed that these groups really appreciate people who have done a lot of personal growth work before approaching the group. They like for people to have read, studied, and worked independently before the path.
Another reason some initiatory paths require adults is that some practices are just not going to be socially acceptable for minors. Again, with BTW ritual nudity and flogging are not going to go over well with people when minors are involved and that's been mentioned on this thread a lot: safety. I mean, think of Santeria or some Vodou practitioners. Not a lot of people are going to be ok with minors witnessing or even participating in animal sacrifice.
And there is a lot to be said about having to wait for something. At least in my opinion it tests your mettle and really sets you up for something grand when the time rolls around and you find a great group or mentor. Having to wait means you've studied, you have a good idea of what you really want and you won't jump into a group or take a mentor just because that was the person who responded first to a Witchvox email or something. It really sets people up for success in my experience.
For British Traditional Wicca, which is initiatory, most covens require a person to be whatever is generally considered a "legal adult" in the country in question (so 18 in the United States, for example) but I've seen a lot of BTW covens that require people to be over 21. One of the reasons is the use of alcohol in ritual and the desire for everyone to be able to practice equally and not have another option or whatever.
But a big reason is that initiatory paths tend to require a lot of dedication, learning new thing, memorizing things, copying things, and long periods of waiting and patience. These groups want to make very sure that whoever wants to join is committed to the long haul. But I have noticed that these groups really appreciate people who have done a lot of personal growth work before approaching the group. They like for people to have read, studied, and worked independently before the path.
Another reason some initiatory paths require adults is that some practices are just not going to be socially acceptable for minors. Again, with BTW ritual nudity and flogging are not going to go over well with people when minors are involved and that's been mentioned on this thread a lot: safety. I mean, think of Santeria or some Vodou practitioners. Not a lot of people are going to be ok with minors witnessing or even participating in animal sacrifice.
And there is a lot to be said about having to wait for something. At least in my opinion it tests your mettle and really sets you up for something grand when the time rolls around and you find a great group or mentor. Having to wait means you've studied, you have a good idea of what you really want and you won't jump into a group or take a mentor just because that was the person who responded first to a Witchvox email or something. It really sets people up for success in my experience.
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