Re: THE RANT THREAD!
'Friendly roommates?' Hell, it worked for me! I love having my own room, even though neither of us sleep very well when the other person isn't around because we're both bears and we like to hibernate together in a big pile. However I still have my room upstairs filled with my massage table, my closet, and my altar and it's MY SPACE. It's mine. All mine. And it's not that he's not allowed in there, he just respects my space and how much it means to me to be able to maintain it.
I think this is a wonderful idea. Relationships take compromise and your Artemis heart needs room to grow independently of him. Besides, it's not like you're going to start bringing randoms into the house -- the shared bedroom is not a staple of a healthy relationship (I know it's silly to reference something so old, but look at Lucy and Ricky Ricardo! They had their own beds in the same room -- I know it was for modesty at the time but even as a little kid I thought the idea was awesome). There are lots of avenues to explore so that you, my dear dear Centaur Sagittarius, don't feel like you've been fenced in. Separate beds in the same room? Give it a whirl. Separate bedrooms altogether? GREAT IDEA. You guys will probably be more drawn together after you both acknowledge that you deserve space and alone time and recognize that both of you are completely sovereign beings.
Originally posted by volcaniclastic
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I think this is a wonderful idea. Relationships take compromise and your Artemis heart needs room to grow independently of him. Besides, it's not like you're going to start bringing randoms into the house -- the shared bedroom is not a staple of a healthy relationship (I know it's silly to reference something so old, but look at Lucy and Ricky Ricardo! They had their own beds in the same room -- I know it was for modesty at the time but even as a little kid I thought the idea was awesome). There are lots of avenues to explore so that you, my dear dear Centaur Sagittarius, don't feel like you've been fenced in. Separate beds in the same room? Give it a whirl. Separate bedrooms altogether? GREAT IDEA. You guys will probably be more drawn together after you both acknowledge that you deserve space and alone time and recognize that both of you are completely sovereign beings.
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