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    Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birthday.

    A family member of mine provided me the steps to cast the spell but I require their full name and birthday to get started. I'm absolutely positive that their birthday is one of two dates I know. Would it be okay to write both dates down on my spell paper and then cast it? Or do I need to be more specific? I'm very new to this. Thanks!

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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

    Well, there's something important that you need to ask yourself before doing such a thing, depending upon the actual goal of the spell itself. Without more info from you on your intentions, I'll just go over the ways this can be taken.

    If you are casting the spell with the intent to help the other person find love or a solid relationship, go for it! Love can be a fickle thing, and is hard enough to track down on your own, so any little nudge to maybe give a hand in finding it would be nice.

    If your intention is to make someone fall in love with you (or someone else) or enter into a relationship with you (or someone else), I'd take a moment to really think about what you're doing. Do you really want to spend all the time wondering if they ACTUALLY love you or if it's just a reflection of your will over them?

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    I agree with Munin here. You need to think about the Rule of Three here and Karma as well. You may get what you want for a while, but it may not be what you want or need in the long run.
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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

    Quote Originally Posted by Munin-Hugin View Post
    Well, there's something important that you need to ask yourself before doing such a thing, depending upon the actual goal of the spell itself. Without more info from you on your intentions, I'll just go over the ways this can be taken.

    If you are casting the spell with the intent to help the other person find love or a solid relationship, go for it! Love can be a fickle thing, and is hard enough to track down on your own, so any little nudge to maybe give a hand in finding it would be nice.

    If your intention is to make someone fall in love with you (or someone else) or enter into a relationship with you (or someone else), I'd take a moment to really think about what you're doing. Do you really want to spend all the time wondering if they ACTUALLY love you or if it's just a reflection of your will over them?
    Pardon my lack of specification and proper terminology. I'm aware of the feelings that exist between us and I'm looking to make them stronger and more clear.

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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

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    Pardon my lack of specification and proper terminology. I'm aware of the feelings that exist between us and I'm looking to make them stronger and more clear.
    If that's the case, with feelings already there on both sides, just take a chance and make a move. There will be no spell, incantation, magic potion, or mystical hoobajoob that will be as effective then simply making your intentions known in that time honored, tried and true, mundane way of using your words. Now, if it's a case of just not being able to get up the nerve to say it, you may want to look into a spell to make you feel more confident.

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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

    A spell is not like baking a cake. If you forget the baking soda, its not going to go flat. Its more like making a pot of soup. Say, you don't have carrots. Okay, leave them out. Say you don't have onion. Okay, use garlic instead.

    Basically, you don't need each and every of the components of that spell to do it. You need you, and you need intention, and you need the ability to focus that intention on your desired outcome. Everything else is just props. And yes, the props can help you in terms of focus and mood-setting, but they aren't essential.
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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicken View Post
    Pardon my lack of specification and proper terminology. I'm aware of the feelings that exist between us and I'm looking to make them stronger and more clear.
    If the two of you are working the spell together it is fine. You can use magik to bring yourselves together in any way that is agreed upon.
    If you "know" she has "feelings" for you then act on that. If her feelings are love and if you are right for each other it will grow on its own. If you use magik to force her will to yours then you will be hated by her when the spell is removed and she realizes that you forced her into a relationship that she did not intend. What happens a year from now when you find a new girl and this one still loves you because of your spell?
    It is against my moral code to us magik to rob someone of their free will just as muck as it is to physically tie and gag them and hold them against their will.

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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

    Quote Originally Posted by Chicken View Post
    Pardon my lack of specification and proper terminology. I'm aware of the feelings that exist between us and I'm looking to make them stronger and more clear.
    If you have rapport great enough to make this claim then you can discover the actual birthday by asking and then you don't need to worry about how to get around the use of a birthday.
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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

    Quote Originally Posted by Munin-Hugin View Post
    If that's the case, with feelings already there on both sides, just take a chance and make a move. There will be no spell, incantation, magic potion, or mystical hoobajoob that will be as effective then simply making your intentions known in that time honored, tried and true, mundane way of using your words. Now, if it's a case of just not being able to get up the nerve to say it, you may want to look into a spell to make you feel more confident.

    I second this. Taking the real-life steps ought to be your first choice in moving things forward. Using energy is generally accepted as a means of opening doors that allow you to take those real-life steps (if that door is already closed - in your case it sounds like it's not). Don't be shy, dive into the fray and see what becomes.

    I might recommend a self-confidence spell for yourself, in lieu of a love/relationship spell.

    On the topic of spell props, I agree whole-heartedly with Thalassa. The props aren't important, you really don't need any of it to work a spell as long as you have the focus and intent. I expect the full name and birth date are to focus on the individual, but I've never needed either in order to focus confidence-boosting or protection spells on others (photos, first names, and generally just knowing that person's unique personality works well enough).

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    Re: Would like to cast a love/relationship spell on someone but unsure of their birth

    I have always found flowers, chocolate and a good relationship in the beginning a good way to go ...
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    The Chief stared at the government official for over a minute and then calmly replied.. "When white man find land, Indians running it, no taxes, no debt, plenty buffalo, plenty beaver, clean water. Women did all the work, Medicine Man free. Indian man spend all day hunting and fishing; all night having sex."

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