My wife went with me to therapy tonight. I had suggested it since she was trying to contact my therapist after we had, literally, the first big fight in 20 years together a couple of weeks ago.
I thought I would be ok with it, since we didn't discuss anything she and I hadn't already talked about...but now I'm really not ok with it at all. I feel like my privacy has been violated.
It seems like anytime I get angry about something, she blames my mental health. She's admitted to reading my journal when I wasn't home...now she's looking to my doctor to validate her opinion. Which, by the way, he didn't tonight. He actually made the same points I made to her when we cleared the air last week.
That's why I've avoided really talking about my beliefs with her. They've changed so much over the years...but she'll think it's because my sanity is in question.
Nothing I can do about it at this point...just needed to vent somewhere that I know she won't think t go behind me I guess.
I thought I would be ok with it, since we didn't discuss anything she and I hadn't already talked about...but now I'm really not ok with it at all. I feel like my privacy has been violated.
It seems like anytime I get angry about something, she blames my mental health. She's admitted to reading my journal when I wasn't home...now she's looking to my doctor to validate her opinion. Which, by the way, he didn't tonight. He actually made the same points I made to her when we cleared the air last week.
That's why I've avoided really talking about my beliefs with her. They've changed so much over the years...but she'll think it's because my sanity is in question.
Nothing I can do about it at this point...just needed to vent somewhere that I know she won't think t go behind me I guess.
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