Last year my mom reasserted her chistianity and started going to church regularly. A first in the 36 years I've been alive. Then Christmas rolled around and she said it would be nice for us all to go to Christmas eve services as a family. I told her I'm pagan and didn't want to go to a service for a religion that wasn't my own. A discussion followed about my beliefs. I told her and my father I believed in the gods and an afterlife to which they said sounds like atheism. I explained atheism to them and after more discussion they said it still sounds like atheism. I said either way I'm not going to church because there are a lot of things in christianity I disagree with.
A few days later my mom asked me again to go to the service. I told her I'm not going to go to a christian service because I'm gay and the bible is antigay. She said she'd never heard that, I assured her it was true and I wasn't going. Then a few days later she asked me again. Finally I told her I don't believe Jesus was real because of all the similarities between the Jesus story and the Krishna story that came way before Jesus. So she didn't make me go.
This year is the same thing she asked me twice to go but both times all I said was it wasn't my thing and that I'm pagan and didn't want to go.
Then I was showing her my eye of Horus necklace I bought and explained its meaning to her. A short time later she said she'd really like to me to go to the service. I told her again that I was pagan and that I didn't want to go. She said ok, but do you believe in Jesus? To get her to drop it I said yes.
Am I wrong not going when it makes me uncomfortable? Should I be more accepting and just go to make her happy even though I know I'll hate the whole experience? Was I wrong to lie about believing in Jesus?
Do you think she is trying to turn me Christian or in the least trying to save me, as christians say?
Could it be she is just forgetting she asked me? Sometimes she'll ask me something one day then a few days later ask me again and I'll tell her she already asked me and she says she thought she did but was just making sure.
What should I do about all this?
A few days later my mom asked me again to go to the service. I told her I'm not going to go to a christian service because I'm gay and the bible is antigay. She said she'd never heard that, I assured her it was true and I wasn't going. Then a few days later she asked me again. Finally I told her I don't believe Jesus was real because of all the similarities between the Jesus story and the Krishna story that came way before Jesus. So she didn't make me go.
This year is the same thing she asked me twice to go but both times all I said was it wasn't my thing and that I'm pagan and didn't want to go.
Then I was showing her my eye of Horus necklace I bought and explained its meaning to her. A short time later she said she'd really like to me to go to the service. I told her again that I was pagan and that I didn't want to go. She said ok, but do you believe in Jesus? To get her to drop it I said yes.
Am I wrong not going when it makes me uncomfortable? Should I be more accepting and just go to make her happy even though I know I'll hate the whole experience? Was I wrong to lie about believing in Jesus?
Do you think she is trying to turn me Christian or in the least trying to save me, as christians say?
Could it be she is just forgetting she asked me? Sometimes she'll ask me something one day then a few days later ask me again and I'll tell her she already asked me and she says she thought she did but was just making sure.
What should I do about all this?
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