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    Should Men be able to hit Women?

    I personally feel they should. I feel like if you hit you can get hit back despite who has more muscle mass than who. I know there are going to be some responses saying "No one should be hitting anyone" and "Violence isn't the answer" and all of that. But my question is:Should Men be able to hit Women?
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    Be able? They already do.

    If you mean legally, anyone can hit anyone, they just get in trouble for it...if caught.
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    Be able? They already do.

    If you mean legally, anyone can hit anyone, they just get in trouble for it...if caught.
    I meant like if a female hit a male should he be able to hit her back.
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    That's a loaded question for sure.

    Is hitting open fisted or closed fisted? Is hitting putting your full force behind a blow or is it simply an open back hand applied to some part of the body? Sort of the question is smacking hitting? It also leads to the support questions of should they then be allowed to shove, push, restrain, etc as those seem to be as implied in what one can or can not do as hitting when it comes to male and female encounters.

    That said most guys I know would say if she swings at you then its fair game to swing back. Yet the method of swinging back then becomes the issue.
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    Quote Originally Posted by monsno_leedra View Post
    That's a loaded question for sure.

    Is hitting open fisted or closed fisted? Is hitting putting your full force behind a blow or is it simply an open back hand applied to some part of the body? Sort of the question is smacking hitting? It also leads to the support questions of should they then be allowed to shove, push, restrain, etc as those seem to be as implied in what one can or can not do as hitting when it comes to male and female encounters.

    That said most guys I know would say if she swings at you then its fair game to swing back. Yet the method of swinging back then becomes the issue.
    I personally thought whether or not it's open or closed hand mattered. Smacking is hitting as far as I'm concerned unless it's so small it's a tap. Hitting is not putting your full force. I mean, I really don't know. Some people hit with full force some don't. I was just interested in your opinion on it.
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    Quote Originally Posted by EndlessCravings View Post
    I personally thought whether or not it's open or closed hand mattered. Smacking is hitting as far as I'm concerned unless it's so small it's a tap. Hitting is not putting your full force. I mean, I really don't know. Some people hit with full force some don't. I was just interested in your opinion on it.
    I know for police perspective closed fisted or open palmed is a big difference. Sort of the difference between assault as a felony or assault as a misdemeanor. Both get you in trouble but the return is quite different.

    I understood your just looking for opinions on it but as a subject its to broad I think to expect a generic response. Not only to broad but I think it also heavily depends upon circumstances associated with any occurrence. One might be justified yet change the conditions even a bit and it no longer is seen in the same light, regardless of who is doing the observing.
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    I think it depends on the situation and who is hitting who. For example, if a father is reprimanding a daughter by spanking her, then yes I think it is fine as long as he doesn't over do it. If it is between a woman and man it also depends. If a woman is attacking a man then he has a right to defend himself. However, if he is abusing her then no I don't think it is right for him to hit her. I just think it depends on the situation.
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    I guess men now know how it feels to be a woman.
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    Re: Should Men be able to hit Women?

    You're right. Violence that women commit against men isn't taken seriously enough. I saw a video on Youtube of some woman shoving her bf(social experiment) and she was yelling at him and all of that fun stuff and some people were taking out their phones and saying "Worldstar! Worldstar!"'
    But when the roles were reversed and it was him yelling at her and grabbing her arm roughly someone quickly stepped in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anubisa View Post
    I think it depends on the situation and who is hitting who. For example, if a father is reprimanding a daughter by spanking her, then yes I think it is fine as long as he doesn't over do it. If it is between a woman and man it also depends. If a woman is attacking a man then he has a right to defend himself. However, if he is abusing her then no I don't think it is right for him to hit her. I just think it depends on the situation.
    Yeah, I meant more of in a defense situation but I get what you're saying.
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