Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?
I'm against circumcision unless it is done for a medical reason. My view on it is that guys weren't supposed to have the skin there - they would be made like that. I do understand the fear that some get about a man being unclean if he isn't cut, but his parents should have taught him the importance of hygiene. If they did - then he should be clean even when not circumcised. As for the legal standards - I also think it is wrong without a serious medical reason. I know I wouldn't want anyone messing with my body without my say in the matter. Most guys I know have admitted they feel like something is missing there and wonder what it would have been like to be uncut. I don't remember how that conversation even started but I got to hear a lot of personal guy issues with circumcision that I really listened to and took to heart. A few of them even felt they were snipped incorrectly as the skin on the penis was too tight or was oddly shaped - like the doctor wasn't paying attention. And from the nurses I've known the doctors don't do the cutting patiently - it has become to routine. Another thing that makes me nervous.
After listening to my friends and learning about it as much as I could - if I ever have a son, I'm letting him make that decision when he is older. I don't feel I should be the one making such a big decision about his body.
I'm against circumcision unless it is done for a medical reason. My view on it is that guys weren't supposed to have the skin there - they would be made like that. I do understand the fear that some get about a man being unclean if he isn't cut, but his parents should have taught him the importance of hygiene. If they did - then he should be clean even when not circumcised. As for the legal standards - I also think it is wrong without a serious medical reason. I know I wouldn't want anyone messing with my body without my say in the matter. Most guys I know have admitted they feel like something is missing there and wonder what it would have been like to be uncut. I don't remember how that conversation even started but I got to hear a lot of personal guy issues with circumcision that I really listened to and took to heart. A few of them even felt they were snipped incorrectly as the skin on the penis was too tight or was oddly shaped - like the doctor wasn't paying attention. And from the nurses I've known the doctors don't do the cutting patiently - it has become to routine. Another thing that makes me nervous.
After listening to my friends and learning about it as much as I could - if I ever have a son, I'm letting him make that decision when he is older. I don't feel I should be the one making such a big decision about his body.
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