So...on another forum, the topic came up of what is offensive about the Gospel and how people can be less obnoxious in delivering it (I'm paraphrasing)...and of course, the discussion came to the idea that the Gospel is not offensive, PEOPLE of offensive in how they choose to wield it...to which I developed a little list that I think could be expanded or revised somewhat:
Thalassa's List of Interfaith Discussion Etiquette, or How and When to Share Your Religious Beliefs with Others:
1) If someone asks about your beliefs, share. If they don't ask, don't share.
2) If you feel compelled to ask someone else as a way to spark a discussion, back off if they aren't interested.
3) If you are in a mutual discussion of beliefs, don't tell people they are wrong and don't tell them they are going to hell.
4) Don't act like your truth is everyone's truth--we already know that you think it is, and we disagree.
5) Realize that the people that vocally use their religion as an excuse to be a jerk are louder than those that don't, if you want to be a good ambassador for your faith, act your ideals, don't preach them.
What suggestions would you make?
Thalassa's List of Interfaith Discussion Etiquette, or How and When to Share Your Religious Beliefs with Others:
1) If someone asks about your beliefs, share. If they don't ask, don't share.
2) If you feel compelled to ask someone else as a way to spark a discussion, back off if they aren't interested.
3) If you are in a mutual discussion of beliefs, don't tell people they are wrong and don't tell them they are going to hell.
4) Don't act like your truth is everyone's truth--we already know that you think it is, and we disagree.
5) Realize that the people that vocally use their religion as an excuse to be a jerk are louder than those that don't, if you want to be a good ambassador for your faith, act your ideals, don't preach them.
What suggestions would you make?
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