TRIGGERING! Deep emotional feelings. :=o:
A bit of back story: My family was really involved in the church, like really involved. My mom ran weekly bible study and children's church, my dad did sound and lighting for events and services. My brother was co-leader of teen group. I would guesstimate we spent about 10 hours on Wednesdays and Sundays at church. They talk about homeschooling us because of science class! :=L: It was a huge blow to my parents when I refused to be baptized and changed my middle name to a "pagan word". In 2010 my brother passed away in a car crash and in 2014 my father took his life, those event sent my mother deeper into evangelicalism. We have gotten into huge fights because I go to a UU church and she worries that I am teaching my daughter the Pagan way. It so hard to hear her beat herself up because she wasn't "good enough" to save dad or me from Paganism. A couple of days ago we got into it because I refused to (again) get baptized and will not go to Church on Easter.
The guilt is holding me back from growing spiritual. I have the books, a mentor, alter, prayers and I meditated. I feel like I do good...until I talk to my mom then I question everything and think for her it would be easier to just pretend to be something I am not.
A bit of back story: My family was really involved in the church, like really involved. My mom ran weekly bible study and children's church, my dad did sound and lighting for events and services. My brother was co-leader of teen group. I would guesstimate we spent about 10 hours on Wednesdays and Sundays at church. They talk about homeschooling us because of science class! :=L: It was a huge blow to my parents when I refused to be baptized and changed my middle name to a "pagan word". In 2010 my brother passed away in a car crash and in 2014 my father took his life, those event sent my mother deeper into evangelicalism. We have gotten into huge fights because I go to a UU church and she worries that I am teaching my daughter the Pagan way. It so hard to hear her beat herself up because she wasn't "good enough" to save dad or me from Paganism. A couple of days ago we got into it because I refused to (again) get baptized and will not go to Church on Easter.
The guilt is holding me back from growing spiritual. I have the books, a mentor, alter, prayers and I meditated. I feel like I do good...until I talk to my mom then I question everything and think for her it would be easier to just pretend to be something I am not.
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