Because I didn't want to bog down the rant thread and because at this point I'm not really sure its a rant any more as more of a whine but I need to let it out and then maybe I can move on.
I told you guys last week about my best friend who hadn't spoken to me in a month, and then out of the blue wanted to call and talk like nothing had happened and causally drop in shes seeing her ex husband again. Then the next night she called on her way home from Louisianan in tears because he was still seeing his "girlfriend". She let me know when she checked into the hotel that night and we haven't spoken since. This was a week ago. I have called her three times since then and no answer no call back no text messages.
She posted she closed on her house, which I had no idea she was even buying. I'm frustrated with her. I'm tired of being used and its really coming to the point where I can't keep my mouth shut about it. The two years I was in North Carolina we talked more then when I'm two hours away.
Too add to the sting of things. My brother and I grew up with three other children. Two boys and a girl. The 5 of us were inseparable. Our families did everything together. There was even a few times they lived with us. Eight years ago I introduced her to my now exs best friend and they hit it off beautifully. When my ex and I split up I lost her as a friend. Not only did I loose her, her entire family cut off contact with mine. So I didn't just loose a friend, we(my dad and brother) lost a part of our family.
She had her first child on the 17th, I found this out because we have a mutual friend on facebook who happened to post a picture of the baby.
It hurts and it frustrates me. I am at a point where I want to write them off completely but I know if they ever needed me I would drop everything and haul ass to them. How is it these girls have such a strong sway over me? That after 8 years of not talking to one it still hurts to know that not a soul in my family was told she was pregnant or even that the child was born?
I told you guys last week about my best friend who hadn't spoken to me in a month, and then out of the blue wanted to call and talk like nothing had happened and causally drop in shes seeing her ex husband again. Then the next night she called on her way home from Louisianan in tears because he was still seeing his "girlfriend". She let me know when she checked into the hotel that night and we haven't spoken since. This was a week ago. I have called her three times since then and no answer no call back no text messages.
She posted she closed on her house, which I had no idea she was even buying. I'm frustrated with her. I'm tired of being used and its really coming to the point where I can't keep my mouth shut about it. The two years I was in North Carolina we talked more then when I'm two hours away.
Too add to the sting of things. My brother and I grew up with three other children. Two boys and a girl. The 5 of us were inseparable. Our families did everything together. There was even a few times they lived with us. Eight years ago I introduced her to my now exs best friend and they hit it off beautifully. When my ex and I split up I lost her as a friend. Not only did I loose her, her entire family cut off contact with mine. So I didn't just loose a friend, we(my dad and brother) lost a part of our family.
She had her first child on the 17th, I found this out because we have a mutual friend on facebook who happened to post a picture of the baby.
It hurts and it frustrates me. I am at a point where I want to write them off completely but I know if they ever needed me I would drop everything and haul ass to them. How is it these girls have such a strong sway over me? That after 8 years of not talking to one it still hurts to know that not a soul in my family was told she was pregnant or even that the child was born?
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